Its amazing how I went from this high of being in a happy hypnotic bubble to have it tried to be popped by an evil thing with a pointed on fire shiny stick. Yes that was a lot of nonsense and adjectives but I have describe my issue appropriately!!! Well its not amazing. Its annoying. Its really not needed and I would prefer to be avoidable......but since thats not happening so I'm blogging.
I want to say I'm looking for guidance but honestly a quick fix would be preferable. That means I need an instant million dollar lottery winnings so hurry up with that okay??? Really....I do. Thats my quick fix. I personally don't think it will help but I was told that was the option.
Now I'm done talking lottery. Realistically I have a problem and I don't know how to fix it. Usually I would talk myself out of anything or have the ability to persuade with my words.. Like I've talked myself out of being grounded....about 22 speeding tickets, being arrested, and job opportunities and I think maybe my marriage. But....I found something I can't persuade or talk the other person out of. My words will not do justice. You see...when you deal with person with severe depression, a cookie can become their enemy. A dollar bill could turn them.....a smile could torture them. The only way I know of how to help someone that is depressed is too talk them out of it or sneak anti-depressants in their coffee. Those options are not options with this person I'm talking about so I have absolutely no clue on how to help them....at all.
This person is beyond close to me. Thats why my world in the amazing happy bubble of my new and fabulous job is about to popped. Not that the job is going anywhere....just my enjoyment might go. You see when this person is happy, I'm happy. When their sad...I'm sad. blah blah blah...etc. So...needless to say I'm trying to rub off my happiness on them and its not working..its backfiring. big time.
I just don't want one day to come that there won't be anything for me to do because that person is gone. They gave up because I couldn't figure out how to help. Its that serious and that scary. I know that. I feel that...and I can't stand it. Its not me...in case you wondering.Remember....Happy Bubble....lol
Okay now really. Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with a severely depressed person?? Or do you have lottery tickets you want to buy and give me to win on??? Anyone??
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May i suggest dealing with the depressed person like a child...doing what you can to make them happy until they realize that what's going on in the background actually works for them. My wish for you is for greatest happiness...good luck my friend, good luck!
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