Okay yes I typically bitch about how not fantastic my life is. But today I have something to address. Something very specific and pretty much going to be the most useful information that a couple or a marriage absolutely needs to know about.
So...what are the fundamentals of a strong relationship? You need no issues with money, have effective communication and a great sexual relationship. Those are the core strong ones...but because its my blog and and all about me, I would also like to add another possible importance. That would be religion.
Okay...so lets start with usually the biggest issue. Communication. Guess what. Everyone sucks at it. Well...except me...but anyways you need to have effective communication. You expect it from your friends, your family, hell even at work so why do you have dance around your personal relationship with partner? If your woman asked you if she looked fat in a dress...well lets picture this first. Size 4 dress on a size 18 chick...then what would your respond? I bet you a 100 bucks your going say something like," Oh baby your beautiful." Shut the fuck up. Your really a douchebag. Here you are going to let this poor girl go out in public because she heard you say that she was beautiful. So now you have a bigger issue to deal with. Why is it so hard to say..."um sweetie, that dress just isn't your thing. Put on my favorite black dress..its better." Now guys did you get all that? Not only did you answer the question...you in a way effectively communicated with your woman. You made her WANT to put the other dress on versus being stuck answering a question that if you said yes to where you would most likely are getting slapped. Girls...you drive me nuts too. You CONTROL everything. Its really ridiculous. You almost formulate your man to not talk to you appropriately because you flip out on pretty much everything. Its not fair to them. Your going to get to the point of not even know really whats going on in their heads anymore because you have set a path for them to think and to speak. Nice job.
Lets see...whats next. Oh yes. The fun topic. SEX. You absolutely have to have a great sex life with your partner. No ifs and or buts...well you need butts...what? You really do. Anyways, I'm not talking this mechanical type of setup. For instance, if you know that Mondays and Tuesdays and Fridays are the days your allowed to tap that ass then this isn't a good formulation. You should actually want to be able to have sex with your partner any second and at any moment of the day. The days you should be looking at is the ones you actually fought the urge to actually have sex. If your having personal issues or what not with the whole sex thing well go get some help from a doc...or lets put the communication in here: Talk with your partner. Change positions. Find something that works so you get to enjoy every ounce of amazingness that sex is and supposed to be. Not having sex just leads to built of regular frustration and sexual frustration. Your plugging the tea kettle. You should never plug it. That shit will explode in nothing good and a lot of people could get hurt. Just saying........
I do have two other issues to address like I said in the begining, but I just saw the time so I kinda need put a pause here. So...I will continue on hopefully tomorrow. Until then...think about what I've talked about so far. You work it all out with your partner then you should be pretty happy. ;)
So...what are the fundamentals of a strong relationship? You need no issues with money, have effective communication and a great sexual relationship. Those are the core strong ones...but because its my blog and and all about me, I would also like to add another possible importance. That would be religion.
Okay...so lets start with usually the biggest issue. Communication. Guess what. Everyone sucks at it. Well...except me...but anyways you need to have effective communication. You expect it from your friends, your family, hell even at work so why do you have dance around your personal relationship with partner? If your woman asked you if she looked fat in a dress...well lets picture this first. Size 4 dress on a size 18 chick...then what would your respond? I bet you a 100 bucks your going say something like," Oh baby your beautiful." Shut the fuck up. Your really a douchebag. Here you are going to let this poor girl go out in public because she heard you say that she was beautiful. So now you have a bigger issue to deal with. Why is it so hard to say..."um sweetie, that dress just isn't your thing. Put on my favorite black dress..its better." Now guys did you get all that? Not only did you answer the question...you in a way effectively communicated with your woman. You made her WANT to put the other dress on versus being stuck answering a question that if you said yes to where you would most likely are getting slapped. Girls...you drive me nuts too. You CONTROL everything. Its really ridiculous. You almost formulate your man to not talk to you appropriately because you flip out on pretty much everything. Its not fair to them. Your going to get to the point of not even know really whats going on in their heads anymore because you have set a path for them to think and to speak. Nice job.
Lets see...whats next. Oh yes. The fun topic. SEX. You absolutely have to have a great sex life with your partner. No ifs and or buts...well you need butts...what? You really do. Anyways, I'm not talking this mechanical type of setup. For instance, if you know that Mondays and Tuesdays and Fridays are the days your allowed to tap that ass then this isn't a good formulation. You should actually want to be able to have sex with your partner any second and at any moment of the day. The days you should be looking at is the ones you actually fought the urge to actually have sex. If your having personal issues or what not with the whole sex thing well go get some help from a doc...or lets put the communication in here: Talk with your partner. Change positions. Find something that works so you get to enjoy every ounce of amazingness that sex is and supposed to be. Not having sex just leads to built of regular frustration and sexual frustration. Your plugging the tea kettle. You should never plug it. That shit will explode in nothing good and a lot of people could get hurt. Just saying........
I do have two other issues to address like I said in the begining, but I just saw the time so I kinda need put a pause here. So...I will continue on hopefully tomorrow. Until then...think about what I've talked about so far. You work it all out with your partner then you should be pretty happy. ;)
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